Laura Laurent, 10th grade

Valentine’s Day can be seen as either the most romantically significant day of the year or simply another commercially driven occasion, depending on your perspective. Regardless of whether you embrace the romantic spirit or eagerly await February 15, continue reading to discover ways to make the most out of this day, so here are some dos and don’ts to keep in mind:

Here are some dos:

• Do LEAVE the phone alone: 

Refrain from using your phone. While it may seem like an essential tool linking us to people and events that are miles away, it inherently distances us from those physically present in our lives. To simplify, avoid social media for the evening to minimize distractions from meaningful in-person conversations. 

• Do celebrate with friends: 

If a first date isn’t your jam for Valentine’s Day, grab your pals and celebrate Valentine’s Day together over fun “Galentine”’s drinks and dinner. You can make it even more fun by doing a Valentine’s Day grab bag so everyone leaves with something fun! It’s not too late to do it.

• Do Avoid clichés: 

Try to be creative and avoid clichéd gifts or gestures. Instead of generic items like stuffed animals or heart-shaped candies, think of something unique and personal to your relationship.

• Focus on quality time: 

Spend quality time together, doing something you both enjoy, or has a deeper meaning to the two of you. It could be going for a walk, watching a movie, or cooking a meal together.

• Do tell them how you feel:

Communication plays a crucial role in every relationship. Do express your innermost feelings for your partner on Valentine’s Day by telling them that “You really like the way this relationship has been going” or “You like spending time with them.” It will make your date super fun and exciting.

Dont forget to leave the don’ts:

• Don’t ignore it: 

If you’re in a brand new dating relationship, and you’ve been on more than three to four dates, it’s good to give a little something to your date just to acknowledge them. A card, a book, something small but thoughtful if you’re going out right around or on Valentine’s Day. Do not break the bank. It’s too much.

• Don’t make it just about you:

This covers everything for your Valentine’s Day date; from the conversation, to the itinerary. Maybe leave that new action movie for another time. The best way to show them you care is to sacrifice your preferences in exchange for theirs.

• Don’t let Valentine’s Day define your relationship:

DON’T decide that what happens on Valentine’s Day defines your relationship. Don’t let a less-than-spectacular Valentine’s Day make you feel that your partner doesn’t love you. There are many ways to celebrate the day and just because the two of you don’t see them the same way doesn’t mean that your relationship isn’t strong. Gifts for one day doesn’t define a relationship. 

• Don’t ignore your partner’s feelings:

 If you’re in a new relationship, it’s good to acknowledge your date with a small, thoughtful gift or gesture. However, avoid giving “self-help” gifts that may come across as critical or imply that your partner needs improvement.

• Don’t put pressure on the day: 

Avoid putting too much pressure on Valentine’s Day to be perfect. Remember that the best memories are often made when you’re open to spontaneity and enjoying each other’s company.

• Don’t BREAK UP with your partner:

Don’t even think about it! The graph of breaking up on Valentine’s Day is quite high. Doing so not only leaves the person disheartened but also gives them some bitter memories of “The most romantic day of the year”. Even if you feel that the much-needed spark is missing from your relationship, never choose Valentine’s Day to separate from your partner.

Remember, the most important aspect of Valentine’s Day is to celebrate love and connection with your partner or loved ones. By keeping these dos and don’ts in mind, you can create a meaningful and enjoyable experience for both of you.