Paula Forcado, 10th Grade

Just a few weeks ago, the world was struck since the beloved actor Matthew Perry, best known for his role as Chandler Bing in the hit TV show “Friends,” passed away at the age of 54 and has left a deep void in the hearts of fans worldwide. Perry’s death has sent shockwaves through the entire world, leaving many grappling with a profound sense of loss to those who not only enjoyed but felt a deep connection and feeling of comfort in his work on screen. CBS News ‘2023 has reported that “Many took to social media to offer their condolences and remember the man who captured the hearts of millions by playing the quirky Chandler Bing on “Friends” for 10 seasons.” The feelings and thoughts from relatives, fellow actors, and admirers that can only be described as heartbroken, profoundly saddened, and devastated described Perry as a kind, genuine, funny, and gentle person who cared deeply for others. This article aims to explore, commemorate, and celebrate the enduring influence of Matthew Perry’s life and work, highlighting the joy he brought to millions through his iconic role as Chandler Bing in the famous show Friends.

Numerous admirers remember the happiness and humor Perry brought to their lives through Friends even after his passing. As seen by many articles and pages, even the Seisen International School, “Friends” is a cultural phenomenon that never seems to end!”, being recognized and cherished by millions around the globe. Because of Chandler Bing’s quick wit and sarcastic humor, Perry became an adored figure in popular culture and gained an eternal spot in the hearts of Friends fans everywhere. The show’s continued success and popularity is a reflection to the profound influence Perry and the other cast members had on people all over the world. 

For years, fans welcomed Chandler Bing into their living rooms, laughing along with his hilarious one-liners and heartfelt moments. Perry’s image not only entertained but also offered comfort and escapism during challenging times. His ability to make us smile and feel joy through the screen is evidence of the power of television in our lives. Furthermore, Perry was not only the one who brought authenticity to the traits and personality of the character but also was the one who brought them to life.

When he was sent the script he felt the role was made for him. “It was as if someone had followed me around for a year, stealing my jokes, copying my mannerisms, photocopying my world-weary yet witty view of life…” he wrote. “It wasn’t that I thought I could play Chandler; I was Chandler.” (Bushby H, 2023)

In light of his death, Matthew Perry’s passing represents the loss of a gifted actor who touched and accompanied us through our lives on a personal level. Friends fans connected with Chandler’s relatable struggles, finding solace in his humor and vulnerability. Perry’s portrayal allowed us to see ourselves in HIS character, forging a bond that transcended fiction. While it may feel like he’s gone, the memories and emotions he evoked will forever remain in our hearts.

Aside from achievements on screen, Perry’s journey through his life has inspired many. Perry was open about his struggles with addiction and mental health, which served as a light of hope for those facing similar challenges. Perry spoke openly about his struggles with substance abuse in many interviews. He said he struggled with addiction since the age of 14 when he started drinking alcohol. He later became addicted to painkillers after being prescribed Vicodin following a 1997 jet ski accident. (Murray C, 2023) His openness about these struggles in his memoir, “Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing,” humanized him to fans worldwide. Despite the setbacks, Perry’s resilience shone through as he sought help, entered rehab, and emerged stronger. His courage in sharing his journey became an inspiration, helping break the stigma surrounding addiction and mental health. (James, 2023)

As a typical 15-year-old, I couldn’t have imagined that I would have gotten into such a devastating feeling by noticing Perry’s demise. I never imagined that Friends would become such an significant show for me, but now as I can see, as I can remember and as the flashbacks pass in my brain, I can recall those little moments when by simply watching one of those amazing episodes made me happy, made me laugh, made me feel, and connect with every single character—especially Chandler, who will always be, my favorite out of all.

As we remember Matthew Perry, we honor the profound influence he had on our lives. Perry made our homes laugh and smile with his interpretation as Chandler Bing. Though he has passed, his memory will live on through his work and the hearts of his admirers forever. May his memory remain as he will always serve as an inspiration for us to set our goals higher and enjoy each day to the fullest.

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“Friends”, the Cultural Phenomenon. (n.d.). Www.seisen.com. https://www.seisen.com/student-life/seisen-post/features/~board/seisen-post/post/friends-the-cultural-phenomenon

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“Friends” creator says Matthew Perry was sober and “in a really good place” just before his death. (2023, November 2). Los Angeles Times. https://www.latimes.com/entertainment-arts/story/2023-11-01/friends-creator-says-matthew-perry-was-sober-when-they-spoke-just-before-his-death

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